Rules
Before you make any contact with me please read these rules and the accompanying FAQ.
1) Politeness
If there’s one thing that annoys me above all else, it is rude people. I am always polite and I expect the same in return.
2) Respect
Respect is earned so they say. When it comes to respecting a person, I agree. However, that does not prevent me or anyone else from offering respect in the first instance. I always give people the benefit of the doubt and offer my respect from the word go.
When engaging in a subDom relationship, a submissive will quite willingly hand over complete control to me on the understanding that I will care for, guide and show respect to that person. Oh yes, I will show respect to my submissive. If they trust me enough to relinquish control then I have a duty to return that respect and trust.
3) Honesty
Honesty is always a good trait in anyone. Within a subDom role, it becomes paramount. If a submissive is not honest with me it can lead to trouble. I need to be aware of your experience, your absolute limits, any medical conditions that you may have, your marital status, the whole nine yards.
4) Personal Hygeine.
Now I know that most of us take care of our personal hygiene without much thought. There are however a few who consider that I am not worth the effort. Well if I can make the effort to be clean and tidy then so can you.
5) Financial Responsibility
I am not in the business of ruination. If you have a family that has to be taken care of, if you have personal financial commitments to honour. You will take care of them before applying to me for financial slavery. I feel very strongly about this. If I find out that you are not looking after your family, I WILL out you.
6) Serious Submissives Only
I have had my fill of wannabees and vanilla’s who are out for a sexual thrill. There are plenty of Ladies out there who are willing to satisfy your sexual craving. I won’t. I only deal with subs who are serious about their role and understand the subDom relationship. That is not to say that I do not take on newbies. I do. But they have to prove to me that they understand the relationship and are truly submissive.
7) Strokers, Tossers , Lost Little Boys and Mentally Deficient Time Wasters
Ha ha, I think the title says it all. Leave my website right now
8) Absolute Limits and Safe Words
If you are thinking about telling me that you will do ANYTHING for me. Don’t bother. We both know that you won’t. If you tell me this, I will know straight away that you are not a real sub.
Everyone has limits. Sometimes we don’t quite know where the boundary is but that doesn’t stop you from giving me an idea where it may lie.
Hence the term, SAFE WORD, or STOP WORD.
I will never push a person past their absolute limit but I will push your perceived limits. If you absolutely do not wish to cross your perceived limit, all you have to do is say the SAFE WORD.
The safe word is...."CHANTICO"
I will not use any other word, so if you already have one, Change It.
9) Assignments and Tasks
When I set them for you I expect them to be completed on time, every time. Do not fail to complete a task in the hope that it will get you into trouble so that you can get off on a beating. It doesn’t work like that. I have plenty of punishments that will annoy and frustrate you far worse than a simple beating.
10) Slave Versus Submissive
Slave is a rather over used term I think. But strangely appropriate when used correctly. You will see the term used quite frequently throughout my site. A slave is not a submissive, although they both hand over control in different ways, so there is in fact a blending of the two.
11) Profanities
Don’t you ever swear at me or in my presence. I don’t mind the use of so call swear words used in context but I will not abide their use in everyday conversation. If you are not intelligent enough to find a more suitable word or phrase, you don’t have enough intelligence to travel this road with me.
12) BDSM
Bondage Domination Sado-Masochism
I am not into masochism.
I use the term BDSM as Bondage Domination and Submission
13) What is a Submisive
Let’s see now. I will tell you what makes a good sub as far as I am concerned. Well first of all let me tell you that contrary to popular belief a submissive man is not to be looked down upon by his peers because generally speaking he has more positive traits than your average guy.
Don’t for one minute believe that a sub is not really a man and that he is a weak, lilly livered excuse for a man.
You cannot become a sub until you first become a real man.
He has to be Mentally mature, Self Assured without the need to prove it, Confident in himself and his abilities, Responsible for his actions and a responsibility to others. He needs to have pride in himself and his achievements. He needs to be emotionally stable, be able to accept criticism without taking it as an insult and have developed social etiquette and an understanding of society and where he fits into it.
Someone just looking for an hour or two as a sub doesn’t need any of the above. They just need the available cash. But they are not good subs.
14) Naughty Litle Boys
Don't annoy me by being deliberatley naughty in order to warrant extra punishment. You won't get it.